So I was just wondering what the rest of you did for gifts for your in-laws. Did you and your significant other get a joint gift for them both, or individual gifts for each parent from both of you, or you bought your own gift for them? Also- I know you're supposed to write notes thanking each VIP for being a part of your day- did you individualize these notes or do them as a couple to the parents? I am thinking of doing my parents individually and then his as a joint with him. What did everyone else do? The amount of notes and gifts are stressing us out... lol. Thanks for any help!