Gifts for bridesmaids at bachelorette party?

Mine is this weekend too! My girls paid for a condo for the weekend plus my flight (I live in FL, they live in DE) so I bought them customized tumblers. I got mine of etsy for $10 a price!

I bought jewelry for their dress and wine glasses with their name on it all from etsy

Is anyone attending the bachelorette that isn't a bridesmaid? If so it would be awkward to give some attendees a gift and not all. I've never been given a gift as a bridesmaid at a bachelorette.

I've never gotten a gift when I was a bridesmaid and attended the bachelorette parties. I got gifts at the rehearsal dinner.

I got my girls wine tumblers with their initials on them, a mirror with pearls on it, a tote bag, jewelry, sweatshirt, and I'm going to add candles before the wedding. I did not get them anything for the bachelorette.

Just from my experience attending a Bachelorette party as a bridesmaid, I have always received a gift from whoever was hosting the BP such as a goody bag...but, never from the bride. Those "thank you" gifts are typically given at rehearsal or day of wedding.

I would definitely get them a gift to show your appreciation for being your bridesmaids.

My bachelorette is this weekend too! I'm not giving gifts at the bachelorette because not everyone going is a bridesmaid. I am giving all gifts at the rehearsal dinner.

My bachelorette party is in 2 weeks! I'm having more people than just my BMs so I wouldn't give them a thank you gift there since it would be awkward. My MOH is planning an awesome weekend on a lake so like @Britny I'm helping her with the goody bags for the girls. I also got them personalized tumblers to keep everyone's drink straight. I think you could do something like that for everyone, not just singling out the BMs.

I've been a bridesmaid many times. Typically, I would get a small gift for hosting the shower, but nothing doe the bachelorette.

I'm having a beach weekend. One night is just the BP so I plan to buy breakfast in the morning for them all, including mimosa. I'll do a nice bottle of wine each for the shower.

My bachelorette was in NOLA so when I was in Ulta I saw mini OPI in the New Orleans collection. I thought it was cute so I got each girl the mini set and wrote a thank you card.

I've been a bridesmaid 5 times and have been to more bachelorettes than that. The bridesmaids have never gotten a gift from the bride for the bachelorette. The host has done goodie bags and/or survival bags. If you want to gift your bridesmaids, go ahead but no it isn't necessary.

I have been thinking about this too. There will be people invited that are not in the wedding, but I still want to do something to thank them for at least coming and participating. But I don't know what my MOH has planned so she may do something like that. I have only been to 1 recent bachelorette party and I think we did get a small bag of items related to the party.

Thanks so much gals!!

@becomingthelivermans, only people attending the wedding should be invited to pre-wedding events. It's kind of cheeky to invite people to celebrate something that they aren't invited to.

@Jacks, I think what @becomingthelivermans means is that there are other people invited who are not in the WP. She said not "in" the wedding, doesn't mean they aren't invited. That's how I interpreted it anyway.

@OP- I've only been a BM once and the bride didn't have a bachelorette party or give the BP gifts so I'm unsure as to the etiquette here. If you want to show your appreciation for the bach party on that weekend I don't think anyone will dispute it, maybe think it's odd/unexpected but not in a bad way. One of the gifts I plan to do is wine glasses with decals of their first name initial and then full name. Decals are pretty cheap on Etsy, and you can get glasses and such from dollar stores and they still turn out nice.

I think it's really preference and if budget allows for it. I'm weird and really like gift giving so I decided to make "recovery goody bags". It's simple, easy, and fun to get a little creative.
My bachelorette party is away for labor day weekend and 4 of the girls are my Bridesmaids/MOH and the other 3 are just close friends. However, I have made goody bags for all of them. I purchased personalized bags from Etsy to hold all the little goodies (bags were like $2 each) that say Hangover Kit with "(my name)'s Bachelorette Party" - same with hair ties that are personalized with the same but also says "to have and to hold your hair back", Emergen-C packets, little pack of gum, advil, a "P***" cookie with their name iced on it (also purchased from Etsy), and all of the above are in the bag. The bags will be wrapping around a water bottle.

I've seen some ideas of adding makeup remover pads to the bags, which I may add that.