My now husband's (yay!) parents helped us so SO much before, during and after the wedding. They did a lot of work putting tents up, financial help, letting guests use their house, cleaning up after, etc. I want to get them something that shows how grateful I am, but they're so spartan with their lifestyle it's really hard. They spend a lot of time travelling in their RV, so they don't have any use for useless trinkets or "stuff." Food would be good if his mom didn't have a gluten allergy. They don't go out much, but they do work a lot on their house. These people have a lifestyle they like, a set coffee brand they life, and basically a life they don't want to really change too much. They tilt their head in wonder when people spend tons of money eating out at restaurants or buying extravagant gifts. It's just not them. Help!