Gift from wedding party?

They'd typicaly gift at bridal shower if they're going to but no one has to gift. and it can be a gift card to a place the bride and groom are registered at or a gift from registry

To the best of my knowledge there is no “proper etiquette” for this. They gift what they can afford.

One of my bridesmaids gifted us cash, one gifted us a suitcase from our registry, one gifted us a gift card/recipe box/personalized cutting board, and one gifted us a card. All were appropriate and appreciated.

I’ve only heard that the bridesmaids go in on a gift for the bridal shower gift.

So I guess I should have been more specific. We’ve already done the shower/gifts. Day of wedding is what we’re trying to figure out.

View Quoted Comment I’ve never heard of a gift on day of the wedding. If you want to do that, what a nice gesture! Don’t. Feel obligated . If anything a nice handwritten note would be sweet

I don’t see why it would be any different than a typical wedding guest. I’ve always gifted a card with cash or a check at the wedding and a physical gift at the shower.

When I was my bridesmaids bridesmaid, I gifted at the bridal party (naughty fun stuff) and at her wedding

I'd treat it the same as if I were a regular gift. A nice card and cash/check of what i can afford.
If i had to travel and buy expensive dresses/hamu then the gift might be less than I had spent less on expenses.

You should gift the same as any other wedding guest unless you can’t afford a nice gift after buying a dress and everything else involved in being a bridesmaid. If you can’t afford a typical gift you should write a nice card and speak to the bride separately or get something sentimental that’s not expensive. I’ve been a bridesmaid eight times now and was just recently a bride and I was a little hurt by a few of my bridesmaids not giving me a gift or card on my wedding day and not mentioning it to me- especially those who’s weddings I was in and also gave them a gift.

I didnt expect my BMs tonight anything. They spent oney on dresses, shoes, my sister and cousin both traveled to make it so I was just happy they were there with me. But they surprised me with a date-night wallet. It had gift cards for a local coffee place, restaurants and some cash inside.

Im not getting gifts. My 2 bridesmaids are unable to afford anything. I wouldnt want any anyways.

I've been a bridesmaid twice, both times I gifted the bride & groom $100 in a card. I told our wedding party to skip presents since they spent so much on our wedding but more than half still gave us cash.