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lisa
Savvy October 2015

Gift for mother and father of the groom?

lisa, on September 29, 2015 at 1:35 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

My parents are paying for my wedding, so I am getting them a few gifts to give at the rehearsal dinner. Is it standard to get gifts for the mother and father of the groom as well? We will all be at the rehearsal dinner when I give out the gifts so I don't want to make anyone feel left out. My Fiances parents are divorced, so I would need to get them separate gifts. Also, I've been searching etsy and although i keep finding those plaques that say "thank you for raising the man of my dreams..." With a photo and I think they're cute, I'm not sure his mom would like it enough to actually display it. Am I required to get gifts, and if so, how much do I spend and what should I get ?? My wedding is only a few weeks away so it might be too late to custom order anything online at this point.

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Latest activity by lisa, on September 29, 2015 at 2:41 PM
  • Jessie
    Expert August 2017
    Jessie ·
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    I don't think it's "required" but I think it'd a good gesture. FH doesn't really want to give gifts to his parents but they are actually letting us use their yard for the wedding so it just seems crazy not to. So I'm making frames as thank you gifts for FMIL, my mother, BMs, and general helpers. As for FFIL I am giving him a fishing lurer (he is a huge fisherman) that says father of the groom and then probably a regular lurer just so he has one to actually use as well.

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  • Jeanne
    Master August 2015
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    Personally, I'm of the mind that you get gifts for your parents because you love them and are grateful to them for supporting you in this huge time in your life. I definitely think if you're doing one set of parents, you should do the other as well. If you're unsure about a sentimental frame being displayed and don't have time for personalization, consider adding a personal note or card to just a non-wedding related gift that you think they would enjoy.

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  • Sara
    Expert December 2015
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    We are doing some cute small gifts at the RD, but we are planning to order photo albums for each set of parents through our photographer after the wedding. You could tell them at the RD that's what you are going or give them a little "IOU" certificate. I'm sure they would love nothing more that a nice set of photos to remember the day!

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  • Chloe
    Devoted May 2015
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    We paid for our moms to go to get their nails done with the wedding party and did a few other little things. But the ting our parents appreciated most... My DH wrote a letter to my parents and I wrote a letter to his. There were tears and hugs and they have kept them and it was a really special moment.

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  • lisa
    Savvy October 2015
    lisa ·
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    Yeah I definitely want to get them something, but wanted it to be appropriate to the occasion. (My bridesmaid suggested jewelry but I wasn't sure, and I'm also on a tight budget). I was going to frame a nice photo from our engagement shoot with a note, so that way they can display it anywhere and have the personal note as a private gesture.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    I definitely think it's a nice gesture to get both sets of parents gifts! If you need to buy yourself some time, you could decide not to hand them out at the RD and instead do them after the wedding. Professional pictures from your wedding in a frame or album are always big hits!

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  • lisa
    Savvy October 2015
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    I think that's my best bet !

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