Gift for father of the bride with strained relationship

I am wanting to make handkerchief for our gifts to my dad, our moms, and my girls. I crochet and cross-stitch, so I will be embroidering them myself instead of buying them. Finding wording for our neices, mom's and my sisters was easy. But all the gift saying I find for FOB are too mushy and that is not the relationship we have. "Of all the walks we've taken, this is my favorite" "I'm always your little girl". I had that type of relationship when I was little but after their divorce, we haven't always had the best relationship. BUT my dad and his wife are paying a good chunk of our wedding so I want to be respectful and give him one too, and her now that I think of it while writing this.


Do I do a basic monogram. The funny "No ugly crying". I'm including some of the ones I'm thinking of doing for my two sisters, mom's, and two nieces.