Getting Remarried

We eloped 1998, 😂 too long ago. I was super excited to plan a wedding last year, but now I am not because I still have to wait for August 2022. However, I am making this silver wedding a huge deal, so I am 100% sure I will be nervous. But not nervous to meet anyone, because I don’t want any guest, we’ll do it intimately. I am nervous I expect perfection, just because I am a perfectionist and I can’t help it. I am a photographer and I am having a huge problem picking a photographer/videographer because there is always one picture in their website that I would turn me down and lost the interest on her/him. 😞

At first I thought you meant remarrying a person that you divorced from. Many ppl on here are having a big ceremony after a courthouse wedding. Many say they are excited until the day of and thats when anxiety comes.

View Quoted Comment Lol nope remarrying my husband and that's how I'm feeling. I'm really nervous about the whole, his family, how the wedding will be, down to the vows

I think it’s normal

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I think it’s normal to be nervous. In your case especially since you said you’re nervous about meeting his family. So there is some uncertainty there. Did you speak to your husband about it? Maybe he will be able to calm your nerves.
Our wedding won’t be super traditional. We customised it to our liking. But I think if I was going with a traditional wedding I’d be nervous too! ☺️

Definitely normal especially if you haven’t met his side of the family.

View Quoted Comment Thank you for settling my emotions lol and yes I have spoken with my husband about this. He says not to be nervous and that we can meet his family before the wedding.

View Quoted Comment That’s great. If time permits, I’d recommend you do that. This will be a huge burden off your shoulders and make you gain confidence. I’m sure you have nothing to worry about anyway!

View Quoted Comment Thanks hun and congrats to you as well

View Quoted Comment Thanks! Exciting times!! ☺️

View Quoted Comment Definitely exciting lol with everything going on. I expect to have hand sanitizer everywhere🤣

View Quoted Comment Haha yeah. A must 😂

View Quoted Comment For sure🤣

View Quoted Comment Lol I love your story! I only hope to be married as long as you have been. My wedding also has silver incorporated with royal blue. I wish you tons of luck on your wedding next year. Hopefully there is no covid in 2022, I'm so over it lol. Also, I am bit of a perfectionist myself so I know how you feel I been freaking out trying to make sure everything is perfect like how I want. I find a lovely photographer and she has tons of pictures on her website even videos. I actually cried looking at testimonial videos🤣

View Quoted Comment They are really a tear jerker, aren’t they?

View Quoted Comment Yes they are lol

That's the reason I don't do courthouse wedding. Not being judgemental on that at all to each his own. Also maybe I'm the odd one here but why is it you haven't met his side of the family until the second wedding? So yeah my fiance family knew me and met me before and after we got engaged. I understand you would be nervous re planning a traditional wedding to met before people you never met.

Since you are remarrying and this may be a dumb question but which date would be your actual wedding date the courthouse date or the second wedding date? unless you doing it the same day just asking.

We had a legal ceremony in October in front of like 10-15 people and this October is the big wedding with about 85 people and I’m still very nervous especially because we are a ceremony so that way I can walk down the aisle and everyone can see and what not, we just have to do the ceremony in a way that isn’t like we aren’t already married so I’m thinking a few readings and reflection on the past year of being married and then sharing the vows we did with everyone!