Okay y’all-
I know that most of my posts are about my FMIL but I have no idea how to handle the situations she puts me in!
Today, she asked me where we are getting ready at. I told her at the venue since they have a small bridal room. She then asks who will be there and I told her I’m not sure. Probably just my bridesmaids (3) and she then throws a fit because she was not invited and how she has no say in this wedding.
Okay - let me say something. She has been to the venue. She has seen the bridal room. It’s so small. It will barely fit 3 people comfortably, 4 people is pushing it. our venue is out in the middle of nowhere and an hour away from anything and I don’t have a DOC so knowing myself, I’m gonna wanna be there early to set everything up. My mom is not even getting ready with us.(for different reasons, if she was, FMIL would too. I’m not heartless and wouldn’t invite my mom and not her) and she’s not paying for the wedding at all so honestly she shouldn’t have a say in anything.
I ask her opinion all the time on things. I’m not sure how to deal with this. She acts like it’s the end of the world she’s not going to be there when we are still 9 months out and everything is subject to change!
I literally think about my wedding day and her being there and it STRESSES me out. Any one deal with something similar? I’m freaking out honestly. I really wish I could just tell her to show up at 4:30 with everyone else.
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