Getting married tomorrow. Not loving the production of it all

Focus on your FS. During your processional just focus your eyes on them and don't pay any attention to who else is around you. The same thing during your first dance.

Honestly, my husband and I both dreaded those things but it wasn't bad at all. You will probably have to work to pay attention during those moments anyway. So much goes on in the day that I had a hard time focusing on anything. Just take it one moment at a time and realize that ultimately you'll be married.

It goes by SO FAST that you probably won't even think it's as bad as you had imagined

Liquor???

I'm kidding.

Okay maybe i'm not.

But in all honesty, maybe plan a break to breathe in between all of the stuff? I don't know what kind of timeline you've planned, but maybe you can quick schedule 10 minutes where it's just you and your best friend, sister, brother, mother etc before the ceremony to calm down and relax. And after the ceremony, maybe even before the reception, take 10 minutes with your fiance to take a breath too in an air conditioned environment.

Also drink lots of water. That heat can really mess with you.

You don’t have to do first dances. It’s your wedding. 😊 What else don’t you want to do?

Take a deep breath, you're going to have a great wedding! Congratulations!!