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Alex
Devoted October 2018

Getting married on Friday

Alex, on September 30, 2018 at 11:13 PM Posted in Planning 0 13
I can't believe the day is almost here!! I'm so excited but I am so so nervous. I'm nervous that it's not going to be how I've pictured it. I know that some things will go wrong but I just keep judging almost every decision that I've made. And I'm worried that the guests will hate everything and think it looks cheap. I'm just freaking myself out and it sucks!! I need to remember to take a step back and breathe. What's important is I'm marrying the man I love.

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Latest activity by Alex, on October 1, 2018 at 12:10 PM
  • K
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    Ka-Rina ·
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    Thats exactly that! It truly doesnt matter what anyone thinks..ull nevet be able to please everyome and your wedding is not the day to try Smiley winking

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  • Haaley
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    Haaley ·
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    You have got this! Take that nervousness and use it to motivate you to keep your head up. You are almost there! Good luck!
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    Dedicated October 2018
    Megan ·
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    My mom always tells me that if nothing goes wrong you won’t remember it. Not necessarily true, but kinda helps me to relax about it. Like you said, most important thing is that you are marrying the man you love! Good luck!
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  • ap2al
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    ap2al ·
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    I’ve accepted that things will likely go wrong because a lot of people are involved and people tend to make mistakes. But then I remind myself that at the end of that day, no matter what went smoothly and what messed up, I will be married to my best friend and that’s what ultimately matters Smiley smile while the journey is fun, keep in the ultimate goal/destination in mind! We got this! 6 days for me!
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  • K
    Beginner October 2018
    katie ·
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    Hey date twin!!! i feel the same way! my other half doesnt understand why im nervous and freaking out.
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    Savvy September 2018
    Concetta ·
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    You sound like me and let me tell
    you my day turned out amazing way. Better then i pictured,I got thru the day by telling myself no one but you will know if something didn’t get done or if it’s in the wrong spot ect....trust me it will be fine,my only regret is I wish I had slowed down that day and took everything in a ltitle more,the day will go by so fast....and as for cheap if you have to worry about that then I think you should have chosen your guest more carefully,,your real friends and family won’t care if they are eating off a china plate that cost 15.00 bucks or a clear fancy sams club plate....they will only care that you are happy and having the best day ever!!
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  • Cheryl&rock
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    Cheryl&rock ·
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    Well, as of this post you have been married three days! I hope you drop by and share your day with us! I'm sure it was a wonderful day!

    Congratulations!!!!

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  • Alex
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    Exactly! I'm just a huge people pleaser so I need to calm down. I told my mom the other day "No one will care about this! I am seriously the only one is judging myself so hard. People just want to show up and celebrate." It's so easy to say but hard to remember!! Thank you!
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  • Alex
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    Alex ·
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    Thank you Haaley!!
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  • Alex
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    Alex ·
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    That's a great saying Smiley smile Thank you!!
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  • Alex
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    Alex ·
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    How exciting!! Thank you!
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  • Alex
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    Alex ·
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    Yay date twins! And same! My FH is so calm about everything. It drives me crazy!! But it's probably because I'm a little jealous Smiley xd
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  • Alex
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    Alex ·
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    Remember to slow down is amazing advice. And honestly no one is going to think anything looks cheap. That is absolutely that little antagonistic vioce in my head making me think that lol We are our toughest judges.
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