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Megan
Savvy November 2020

Get married on original date, but wait to do the reception a year later?

Megan, on June 15, 2020 at 12:17 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 5

Hey everyone! My fiancé and I have been thinking about getting married on our original date and then moving our reception a year later for a 1 year anniversary event. We saw this idea on the wedding wire and are thinking its the best decision for us. We have a lot of family members that already said won't be able to make it due to covid19 (bc they live out of the country) or do not want to come if we have our full 175 guest list bc of covid19. We thought about having a small ceremony on our original date (November 28, 2020) at our venue. I haven't reached out to my vendor about this particular scenario yet, but they are very accommodating and have not sent us anything about us not being able to have our wedding. I am thinking about seeing if we can offer our guests (close family and friends, about 50 people) champagn upon arrival, we have our ceremony how we normally would have, after we say our "I do's" I thought maybe our matron of honor and best man can do their speeches and everyone can do their toasts (bc they will hopefully have champagne), and then maybe if our vendor allows it.. an open bar/cocktail hour to socialize and mingle while we take pictures? I just wanted to pick everyone's brain and get some ideas before reaching out and doing anything official. If you were going to attend a ceremony only wedding, what would you expect or think was unique/special? Hopefully this made sense! And thank you in advance for your posts! I have been getting some great ideas and tons of positivity from these forums Smiley smile You all rock!


P.S. If anyone has any fun ideas for the 1 year anniversary event let me know! We were planning on doing a wine box at our ceremony with letters from each other so I was thinking about incorporating that somehow. Thanks again!

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Latest activity by Megan, on June 16, 2020 at 5:19 PM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    If I attended a ceremony only wedding I would want time to socialize after because ceremonies are usually just so short. But with covid I’m not sure how mingling after would work
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  • Megan
    Savvy November 2020
    Megan ·
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    Thanks for your reply! I also had that thought but most of the people that would be at our small ceremony I have seen already (parents, close friends) and the others I guess would have the option to leave right away.. I think it would be fun to have time to socialize too, but safety is still something to always consider. Thank you Smiley smile

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  • Gina
    WeddingWire Administrator April 2021
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    Hi Megan,

    I actually LOVE this idea! Handing champagne to your guests as they walk in is GENIUS. Especially, if you are having a smaller gathering. So cute!

    I'm not sure what your budget looks like, but after the ceremony maybe you could also offer small plates so yours guest having something to snack on while mingling. I usually don't mind mingling if someone hands me food. Smiley tongue

    I'm excited to hear what you end up deciding. Be sure to keep us posted!

    Sending lots of love your way!

    Smiley heart

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  • Megan
    Savvy November 2020
    Megan ·
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    Hey Gina,


    Thank you so much for your kind words and feedback! I reached out to my vendor and they are going to allow us to do it - champagne and all!! So we will have a small ceremony on our original date, November 28, 2020 and then next year we will have our reception as a first anniversary celebration on November 27, 2021. My fiancé and I are SO relieved!
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  • Megan
    Savvy November 2020
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    I forgot to add - we are definitely thinking about having a few appetizers because I agree.. if you’re going to mingle, you definitely need a snack!
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