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Garter or No Garter

Analie, on March 5, 2020 at 9:48 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 6

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My fiance and I have decided not to have a garter and bouquet toss. Our guests are already married and we do not like the meaning behind it. However, I am trying to decide if I should wear one on our wedding night. I am torn between spending about 15 dollars more on a garter to let him have his moment and saving the money because it is something that I will only wear once just like my wedding dress.

What should I do?

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Latest activity by Kari, on March 7, 2020 at 10:56 AM

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Nicole · on March 5, 2020 at 10:03 PM
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If you’re not having a garter toss or bouquet toss, I would just skip wearing one. I don’t think it’s that important🤷🏻‍♀️
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Legend June 2019
Melle · on March 5, 2020 at 10:11 PM
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I would skip wearing one too if you aren’t gonna toss it or anything
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Andrea · on March 5, 2020 at 10:54 PM
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I’m not doing a garter toss and I’m going to wear one. There is one you toss and one you wear. You don’t toss your main garter, it’s usually a set. I think it’s sexy and I’ll wear one that night for my husband for sure
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Devoted June 2021
Ashley · on March 6, 2020 at 3:45 AM
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Garter, meh. Garter belt with full lingerie set for wedding night? Yes!
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Kelsey · on March 6, 2020 at 10:27 AM
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We aren't having a garter toss either. But I'm wearing a garter with my FH's favorite college team on it for him. It also has our wedding date on it. So it's more so for my FH than anyone else and no one is going to see it besides me and him. And maybe whoever is helping me get dressed lol
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Kari · on March 7, 2020 at 10:56 AM
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What is the point of a garter? What's his "moment" going to be? If you aren't doing a garter toss its completely unnecessary IMO (and probably uncomfortable to wear too).

For me a garter is a completely unnecessary expense and has zero purpose for our wedding. I 100% doubt my FH is looking forward to taking an elastic band off my leg and will be disappointed if there isn't one there. If you know your FH is excited about it, then go for it, but if he's never mentioned it at all I would be surprised if it was something he was expecting.
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