So FHs step mom just let me know she wants to throw me a bridal shower. My MOHs have already informed they are doing one too so this would be separate. Well I'm really not close to future step mom in law I know she wouldn't invite my family or friends which is fine but I know she'd invite people from her family, people we are not inviting to the wedding. I know that's a no no. I did tell her my MOHs are taking care of one, but she didn't drop it.
She's the kind of person who would guilt trip you, she could use them going to the bridal shower as a way to try to make us invite certain people.
Thoughts? Do I leave this alone, am I overthinking this?