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Future sil Can’t Attend

K, on October 12, 2019 at 6:35 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 3

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We learned that my future SIL is pregnant and due on our exact wedding day. Since she lives far away, there is no scenario in which we could reasonably expect her to be able to attend. This is very disappointing for everyone, especially because she and her husband had been a part of our wedding party, so we want to include them in some way. We will likely have their pictures displayed and (with their permission) maybe take a few family photos holding pictures of them. I was thinking about also offering them a private live stream. Any other ideas of ways to make the best of this? Fun wedding-related gifts for mom or baby, etc?

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Latest activity by Sinéad, on October 14, 2019 at 7:17 AM

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Erin · on October 12, 2019 at 6:53 PM
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My FBIL is in the Army and might not be able to attend our wedding. We're considering a livestream like facetime to have him there in spirit and on video. It happens, but I'm sure you're all excited for the new baby. You can definitely send a wedding related baby item which would be a sweet way to remember the important times in both of your lives. Send pictures, You can still add her to the program if you're having one, maybe make a small announcement (especially if the baby is born that exact day)
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Just Said Yes August 2021
K · on October 12, 2019 at 7:00 PM
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Great thoughts, thank you! So sorry to hear about your FBIL. Thanks to him for making such a big sacrifice- it sounds like he is lucky to have a family with so many wonderful ideas to include him.
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Sinéad · on October 14, 2019 at 7:17 AM
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Hey Katie! It must be difficult to be disappointed that your FSIL cannot attend your wedding when it is for such an exciting reason! Congratulations to your whole family! You have some very exciting times ahead!
I think displaying photos of them would be a wonderful idea. I’m sure they would greatly appreciate a live stream of your wedding, although bare in mind that they may be in the hospital and unable to watch! Are you having a videographer at your wedding? The next time you meet with your FSIL you could have a viewing of your wedding video for them.
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