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Dedicated August 2019

Future Parents in Laws

Blag, on June 24, 2019 at 1:53 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4

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Hi ladies,

is it normal that the FMIL & FFIL have trouble letting go of their son who is about to be married in the sense that the son then clings to his wife, etc from in the Bible? there has been an overwhelming amount of drama from his parents throughout our engagement and has just really drained all of us. This really isn’t something I can tell his parents because there would only be more drama. At this point I’m just thinking they will have to handle the transition themselves. I really don’t like my FMIL she constantly trying to pick a fight with my mom and I...No one wants to work with her anymore. I even blocked her on fb. I feel like she just wants to burn everything or something and it’s just so tiring. Does anyone else feel the same or dealing/dealt with this? It’s impossible to talk to her because then there is just more drama.

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Gen · on June 24, 2019 at 2:09 PM
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My MIL has been so appallingly horrible to both me and my husband since we started dating... and now we are at the point where she says the “reason” she doesn’t like us being together is because I take him away from her....... umm, no, he doesn’t talk to her anymore because of the consequences of her own actions, having nothing to do with me...

Some people just thrive on drama. You probably made the right call blocking her. Just try to steer clear of it as much has possible and when you can’t, kill them with kindness. Don’t engage in the drama. How is your FH handling this?
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MrsD · on June 24, 2019 at 2:56 PM
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I'd just ignore her and not involve her in any planning. If she causes more issues, it's your fiance's to deal with. It shouldn't be on you. He is going to be your husband, so naturally you come before all else. I'm sorry you are dealing with this! I think blocking her and avoiding her is a great idea.
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Dedicated August 2019
Blag · on June 24, 2019 at 5:15 PM
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Yeah we try to steer clear from it but I keep hearing about it and I
do shut it down. Not sure how to kill her with kindness tho and what
that means? My fiancé is handling it a little bit better than he used
to. He doesn't like a lot of the stuff that happened recently and
wants her to apologize but honestly it won't make a difference. My mom
and I have already have enough of her and it won't change the fact
that she is just not a safe person to really even be friends with.
You'll see why if you read my other posts. Wish things could be
different.
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Dedicated August 2019
Blag · on June 24, 2019 at 5:15 PM
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Agreed! Thank you for your input.
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