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Lisa
Dedicated December 2021

Future mother in law !

Lisa, on December 6, 2019 at 3:31 PM Posted in Planning 0 16
My fiancé mother will not be able to make it to the wedding which would be February 2021 Because of health situation ( 2 strokes , and other complications) I know I’m planning way ahead But I was thinking I can videotape it live where she can see it or do anybody else have a better idea where I feel like she will be a part of our special day

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Latest activity by Mrs. Bubba, on December 26, 2019 at 6:10 PM
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    Master January 2015
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    Would anyone be able to FaceTime/video chat with her during the ceremony?

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Some videographers have a live stream option.
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  • VIP November 2021
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    I was going to say the same at PP — live stream/FaceTime
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  • Alejandra
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    Along with FaceTime or streaming, would you be able and/or willing to move the location of the wedding so she can attend? You didn't make it clear if she'd currently have to travel to get to your wedding. I'm not sure if its at all possible, and I'm not sure if she'd be able to go, but it might be something to consider, especially since its not for over a year still.

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  • Lisa
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    Me and my fiancé lives in Florida and she stay here in Florida as will, she can’t leave the house because she’s hook up to machine and she gets 24 hour care ,l..sorry for not making that clear but Maybe one of the nurses can FaceTime so she can see it
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  • Lisa
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    I like that idea I’ll definitely talk About it to my fiancé
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
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    Facetime it.
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  • Mrs. Bubba
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    My Wedding was Facebook lived without my knowledge and therefore permission.


    So, I can’t speak to if you’d want to provide that as a way for random people to view it.
    Facetime would mean that only your target audience would be able to view it.
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  • Alejandra
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    Oh wow, I’m so sorry. That’s so much to deal with, for you and your FH. I think maybe FaceTiming would work or you could possibly have a private blessing or maybe even the actual ceremony at her house so she’s there for the most important part?
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  • Natalie
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    I think live streaming it for your FMILis a great way to help her feel like she isn't missing out. You can also include her in planning the wedding (if you are open to that). I think that would make her feel apart of it as well in an important way since she cannot attend. I'm sure she feels terrible about it, health concerns are out of people's control. Just do your best to include her in as many activities related to the wedding as you can. If she has a speech she would like someone to read out loud on the wedding day that could be a nice idea! Or maybe she can have someone recored a video of her giving the speech and you can have it shown during the reception.

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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
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    DH's grandpa was unable to make it out to our wedding due to health issues as well.

    We asked DH's young cousin to videochat grandpa during the ceremony.

    Kiddo was great - got excellent views, didn't get in the way of photographer and videographer, kept the earbud in, so he could react to grandpa... And grandpa got to see! (I never actually got to talk to grandpa, lol, but DH did before the ceremony.)

    Highly recommend this method. We've got the technology, so let's use it for good!

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  • Andi
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    Could you maybe pop in to see her at her house before the ceremony?
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  • Lisa
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    That’s sounds like a good idea ! I definitely going to do that as will and maybe FaceTime , I think she will definitely love that !
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  • Mrs. Bubba
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    Facetime so that she can watch/be a part of it as it happens.
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  • Lisa
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    I definitely will do that ! Thank you for the advice!
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  • Mrs. Bubba
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    You’re most welcome.


    Congratulations and 🍀‼️
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