My fiancé and I were engaged in April. We want a short engagement. I found an elopement package for 20 people in June. We were pumped for it. Welllll his mom thought that was too few people. So she was going to designate her 3 friends as DJs for a THREE HOUR ceremony.. seriously??? Well this plan fell through.
Now we’ve set a date and have a venue. 50 guest not including the groom and I. So we have our 25 a piece. At this place if a child is going to take up a seat, they count. He has 2 kids coming, his mom has demanded this, and one is a hellion and the other is a 1 year old. His mother said children don’t count at her venue she works at. Well they count at this one. She didn’t like that answer.
She made HIS guest list and for 50 people we will now have 3 DJs. So she can make room for other people to come. For the bridal party The plan was for me to have 3 bridesmaids and him 2 groomsmen. If I have another bridesmaid the bouquet will cost $65. We are trying to nail down bridal party this week. So he texted his mom when she’s away from his (spoiled) sister to see if his sister had her heart set on being in it. Because... I’ve been in 2 weddings and I didn’t want to be in either but I felt obligated to be in it. Before answering that she told him to add another groomsmen so the number would be equal. Anyways. His mom SENDS THE TEXT MESSAGE TO HIS SISTER and she replied saying she always thought she’d be in her only brothers wedding but if there isn’t enough room she understands.
He’s now incredibly annoyed with his mother. She then said “don’t you wish you would’ve just gone with the 20 person elopement and none of these issues would be happening,” IS THIS A JOKE?! She pitched a fit about the 20 person elopement. He stated if she continues her and the rest of the family will no longer be invited.
It’s so frustrating. I just want everyone to be happy.