Fun ideas for sober receptions

A well-hosted event needs seats for everyone, food appropriate to the time of day, and drinks. And adults don't need silly games and activities--most adult parties involve sitting, talking, music, and occasionally dancing or other group activities (like lawn games) when appropriate for the setting. But not board games or coloring pages or asking the guests to be a captive audience and watch you guys do some silly trivia thing.

Alcohol is not a required drink, the same way steak and lobster isn't required food. Just have plenty of food and drink, seats, and a pleasant atmosphere. A wedding reception is really just a party--people go to parties for the socialization. Just make sure it's easy for people to socialize.

Yes, alcohol is the norm at most parties, especially parties in the evening. Since clearly not all of your guests are sober, people might be a little put off about going to an evening event with no alcohol because it's not what they're used to and it's not their preference. A daytime wedding would be much easier to pull off as a dry event without people being uncomfortable about no alcohol.

Wow, you can diagnose serious and very real substance abuse issues by just reading comments on the internet? I guess health care never stop evolving...

Also, as our CGs say, kindness matters. If you are going to advocate being open minded and kind, it would help support your point by not posting thinly veiled judgments on another poster's mental health.

Wow! I have a master's degree and three years of experience working with addicts and even I can't diagnose someone through forum comments. You should teach a class or something.

Also, the minute you invite a guest it stops just being about what you and your FH want. I personally don't care about a dry wedding, but the idea that you shouldn't take what your guests want into consideration is wild to me.

I’m doing a dry wedding also. Most of my guests are church members and don’t drink! Lol but I think you’ll be fine as long as you have good food and good music. You don’t need too many games, though I personally like the shoe game.

But I think karaoke would be AWESOME!! Start a sign up sheet before then and book a dj then and book a dj that has that option. Also, a photo booth would get people up and having fun!! You can purchase one or DIY it!

Wish you the best and let us know how it goes!