So I just need to vent. I’m sorry if this is long.
I want to preface this by saying I love my Future MIL. She’s great! She’s super supportive and helpful, we get along well, she gets along well with my family and I’m so lucky I have a good relationship with her.
Anyway. I’m kinda frustrated because a few months ago when I started looking into hair and makeup for the wedding I asked her if she wanted her hair and makeup done as well. She doesn’t wear makeup really and she usually doesn’t do much with her hair except for straighten it. (Which is totally fine! I’m pretty similar) So at first she was hesitant because she didn’t want to look to “fake”, as she put it, but she said as long as it was a more natural look, she wanted to do it because it’s a special occasion. So the time comes to sign the contract and make the payment and I double check with her, my mom and my bridesmaids to make sure everyone wants hair and makeup. Everyone says yes, I go ahead and book it. Yay!
Fast forward about 2 months and the hair and makeup people send me a questionnaire to fill out and send back and there’s a section that asks for inspiration pics for each person. So I reach out and everyone sends me some hair and makeup pics they like. Well today my future MIL tells me that she just wants her hair straightened and she can do it herself. Which I’m totally fine with except for the fact that I already paid and signed the contract for both hair and makeup for her, and I can’t get a refund on it.
I don’t want her to feel bad or forced to do a different look that she would feel uncomfortable or not herself. I want her to feel beautiful too! But now I’m basically out $150.
It’s not the end of the world, and like I said I want her to feel confident and beautiful so if she just wants her hair straightened that’s totally fine! It’s just kind of frustrating.