I have been struggling with my heart since I found out that my 2 biological children were not invited to my step son's wedding. I have been with his father for 20 years. My children are hurt as they just lost a brother, if I don't go my husband says he won't go. In torn between both of my children that I love very much my husband. In hurt that my children were not good enough to include. I said something to them it was the limit of people. But it's not like I had 6 kid's. And they included their other step sibling from a previous marriage on the mother side. I feel like I was not really wanted to go in the first place. I don't want to go but i know it will cause problems with my husband and hurt him. Am I wrong. What advice is out there.