Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Amy
Devoted April 2018

Friends girlfriends at Bridal Showers

Amy, on October 5, 2017 at 9:54 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 21

So FH and I both have seperate close male friends that we've been friends with for years. They are all in long term relationships (one engaged and one married even). My girls are starting to plan my shower and asks me for a guest list (easy enough). My question is, do the friends girlfriends get...

So FH and I both have seperate close male friends that we've been friends with for years. They are all in long term relationships (one engaged and one married even). My girls are starting to plan my shower and asks me for a guest list (easy enough). My question is, do the friends girlfriends get invited? I like them all very much, we all have a great time when we hang out, but the girls aren't directly my friend. I don't know if it would be more awkward for them? But I also of course don't want to be rude.

21 Comments

  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    As a guest I'd rather not be invited in this situation. I have been invited to a shower as the "girlfriend of a groomsman" before and was kind of annoyed about it! I would only know a few people, wasn't close with any of the girls, and now had to buy a gift and decide if it's more awkward to attend or to decline and claim I had something else going on.

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×
WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Explore how we embrace diversity

Groups

WeddingWire article topics