Friend on tight budget

You can ask your friend if there's anything you can help out with. Other than that, I'm not sure if there's anything left for you to do

But she is right. She procrastinated way too long and there's a good chance there won't be a lot of vendors and venues available for her wedding date. There's a pretty good chance that she may have to postpone the wedding if she doesn't find anything, unfortunately.

I suggested maybe postponing until next Halloween and she said "My FH wanted to marry me last year and I can't make him wait another year." The photographer she had backed out and she asked me to do it, but she wants me as her MOH. I told her that I would but I can't be in the wedding and take pictures at the same time. I think the venue is going to be at a cabana at where her mom lives, but I don't think it's reserved yet. She is not exactly happy with the cabana.

She has me as her MOH and I am trying to be helpful with setting up times to meet up with her to go over what she has and what she needs. But, things keep coming up for her not to meet at the set times. We were going to get together this past Monday but she had an appointment then it was going to be Tuesday then she had to take her daughter to the dr because she got hurt. So, now she pushed it back to Friday.

I personally think that she should postpone it for one year. The decorations/colors she wants are not easy to find unless she gets it all online. But, I'm afraid that if she does that she won't like what she gets. She is even ordering all the dresses online.

I have to wait until Friday to see what happens. We are supposed to get together to talk it out and make lists for her. We were supposed to meet up two different times this week and something came up both times for her.

I don't think so either. But, so far she isn't listening to what I am trying to tell her. I am doing what I can to keep her calm and help where I can. But things keep getting in her way to meet up with me on the days and times that she schedules with me.

At the same time, I am trying to plan my wedding. I don't want to procrastinate like she is. I am trying to keep myself calm and focused.

Well then it's on her if she wants all of these things. It's not a friend's job (or MOH or MOB) to help plan a couple's wedding. It's the engaged couple's job only. Just let her know you're there if she'd like to bounce an idea off you, or get a hug. Focus on your own wedding.