Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Super October 2020

Friend from highschool. Do i invite?

Fmv, on May 16, 2019 at 5:22 PM Posted in Planning 0 6

Saved

Flag
Hide content

So my good friend from highschool got married last month and she invited me and my fiance. We hadnt talked in a really long time..
We dony even tlak now, and at her wrddi g i felt so out of place because i no lo ger know anything about her life, its been to long.
I honestly dont think we will talk again anytime soon. Im getting married next year. If we dont end up talking again, am i obligated to invite her to my wedding...just because she invited me to hers?

Flag
Hide content

6 Comments

Latest activity by Hannah, on May 16, 2019 at 9:32 PM

Master September 2019
Sarah · on May 16, 2019 at 5:24 PM
Flag

Hide content
No you aren’t. We’ve been invited to and attended several weddings over the last few years of couples we’re just not close to anymore who aren’t invited to our wedding.
- Reply
Expert June 2019
Grace · on May 16, 2019 at 5:26 PM
Flag

Hide content
I kind of used if I was invited to yours I’ll invite you to mine as a general guideline for some people but if she’s not part of your life and you don’t care about her ever being part of your life again then you don’t have any obligation to her
- Reply
Master August 2019
Allie · on May 16, 2019 at 5:49 PM
Flag

Hide content
Definitely not. I wouldn't invite anyone I'm not close to.
- Reply
Master October 2020
Mandi · on May 16, 2019 at 6:32 PM
Flag

Hide content
We got invited to a wedding of a friend of a friend a couple years ago. But we've become a lot closer since then. We put them on the list back then because our lives intertwined a lot. But high school? Nah.
- Reply
Super August 2019
Tina · on May 16, 2019 at 7:30 PM
Flag

Hide content
I was invited to my bff from high schools wedding 7 years ago. She stayed in contact pre wedding then l didn't hear from her after. I'm not inviting her to my wedding. We are just fb friends and that's all we will ever be. It's ok to let it go
- Reply

Master July 2019
Hannah · on May 16, 2019 at 9:32 PM
Flag

Hide content
Granted none were as recent as your situation, but I was invited to a few weddings that FH and I attended of people who I've drifted away from. I did not invite them to my wedding. My rule was that if I or FH haven't spoken to you in the last year from the time I was making the list and sending Save the Dates, you aren't invited. With the exception of people our parents wanted to invite.
- Reply