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Cheryl
Devoted April 2021

Friday Weddings

Cheryl, on May 25, 2020 at 10:28 PM Posted in Planning 2 50
I have found a venue I really like, I'm still getting my FH on board but I think I can with a little persuasion from his mom and I. We were going to get married in Gatlinburg in April. but then because of all the coronavirus stuff we was forced to cancel. Now we have decided to get married around the same time next year, but in our hometown. Was going to keep our orginal date, but that falls on Eaater of next year. We are wanting to leave for our honeymoon either right after our wedding reception or early the next day.

Would you attend a Friday wedding? Was thinking around 3:30-4pm or possibly even 5-5:30pm. We aren't having many people probably no more than no.

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Latest activity by Cheryl, on June 10, 2020 at 4:35 PM
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    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Absolutely! That's a great way to kick off the weekend!
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    With enough notice, yes. You should definitely start the ceremony as late as possible for those who need to attend after work.
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  • Mayra
    Savvy October 2021
    Mayra ·
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    I attended a Friday wedding and it was ok but I had to deal with Friday traffic (in Los Angeles) and had to take half day off work. Just remember it is a work day and people may need to miss or leave early.
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    With enough notice, I think it would be fine, especially if most guests are local. I would push the start time as late as you can.. maybe 6 if that's possible? So that way people who work until 5 don't have to leave work early.

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    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Send out save the dates 6-10 months before so people can make travel arrangements and schedule time off work. Be prepared for 100% attendance.
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    Thankfully it's just family, my parents are both disabled, his mom usually has a pretty flexible schedule at work, his dad would be the only person I would worry about. But I think he gets off at like 2 in the afternoon, if his wife attends I'm not sure if she works or not. Then I know that both his grandmothers (if one can make it in) is retired. I would take the day off work and he works nights so he would probably take the night before off so he his rested. We really wanted to keep our date as close to our original wedding date as possible. 6 wouldn't be a bad time either, especially since by then here in KY it's not dark yet since our wedding is outside.
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    Super October 2020
    Leslie ·
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    I had to change my wedding to a Friday to be able to get married this year. As a friend of mine said, those who want to go will figure out a way. Ceremony for us will be 530 or 6 and then cocktails and dinner. We hope people can make it for dinner.

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I would do a Friday wedding but go with the 5p time
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
    Cheryl ·
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    That's kinda how I feel about it as well. We will send out new save the dates, and then new invitations. Plus with us keeping it small the most people will have to wait is while we get photos and they will end up being in them anyway.
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    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Yes! We are having a Friday wedding but are starting the ceremony at 6. 1 due to parking and 2, so people don’t have to leave work early to come
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  • Alma
    Expert October 2020
    Alma ·
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    I’m getting married on a Friday at 4:30pm. My guests are all local. No one has complained about it and honestly, with enough times notice, most guests should be able to make arrangements with work and all.
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    My concern with the Friday before Easter is that it's Good Friday. If you have anyone who is particularly religious, then you will likely get some declines. Also, if you have Jewish guests, please keep Passover in mind.

    That said, I would attend a Friday wedding.

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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
    Cheryl ·
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    It's all Family thankfully our parents, kids, and grandparents.
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
    Cheryl ·
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    That's what I was thinking, but you never know. They would have at least a 6 month notice and everyone is local. My photographer (if I use her) is a friend of mine and has been wanting to do our pictures for years.
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    I think a sunset wedding would be beautiful! The venue I found has a Gazebo/lake thing. I drove out there yesterday and the sun sets behind it. Our whole wedding and reception should be done in around 2 hours. Especially since were not dancing.
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    They are all local, the only out of town is my fiances grandma and she may or may not make it in since she is in Las Vegas.
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  • Allie
    VIP November 2021
    Allie ·
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    We are doing a Friday wedding and as some others have said, those that really want to go will figure out how to be there. I’ve also attended Friday weddings myself, at least 4 within the past 2 years, and they’re really not that big of a hassle. Yes, some people will have to leave work early, but if they have an issue doing that, maybe they shouldn’t be there to begin with.
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    Expert May 2021
    Jaime ·
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    I agree with everyone else - just give plenty of notice. I would have no problem taking off a half day for a wedding, but I know others have more strict time off policies.

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  • Katie
    VIP August 2020
    Katie ·
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    If it helps, we had to postpone our wedding to 3pm on a Friday due to coronavirus. Everyone is super understanding when your wedding has been affected by it. I believe traditional rules don’t apply to corona brides ❤️
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    Yes!!! I feel like everyone is a bit more understanding than if we didn't have to postpone. We were both extremely upset about it, but knew it was for the best. We thought about trying to get married later this year but I had my heart set on April. We started dating April 5th 2016, got engaged April 23 2018, and was supposed to get married April 4th 2020. 😍🥰❤
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