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Emily
Beginner July 2021

Friday wedding start time! Help please!

Emily, on September 15, 2020 at 12:34 AM Posted in Planning 1 9

Hi! I need help!

We are having our wedding on a Friday on July 23rd and we only have our venue until 11 pm. We want to spend a lot of time with our guests and don't want dinner to start too late yet, we understand that people have work. Also, our venue is about 30 minutes outside of town. What's an appropriate start time? We're thinking 6? Is that too early/late? All options welcome, I'd love to hear difference in opinions! Thanks everyone!

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Latest activity by Risa, on September 17, 2020 at 7:39 PM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think 6 is ok to start time for Friday wedding
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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    6pm is fine. Your guests will have enough notice to make arrangements for time off work etc to be able to get there and have time to celebrate with you.
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    I think 6 or 6:30 is a good time. That way most people will be off work and have time to get themselves together and commute to the wedding.

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    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    I would try and push it closer to 6:30 maybe 7.
    Is the drive 30 minutes in rush hour traffic?
    My commute to work is about 35 minutes with no traffic in the morning. Going home it typically takes me an hr. Also people are going to want to get changed or freshen up even if they don’t go home. I know I wouldn’t want to work all day in wedding clothes and may hair and makeup would need to be refreshed. I also only get 2 personal days to take off work so I wouldn’t want to take time off to be able to make it on time. Obviously it’s your day and you choose the time that works best for you. The ones that mean the most will be there no matter what. But I think a little more wiggle room would be beneficial. If you want to make the most of the time with your guests do a first look and get pictures out of the way before the ceremony. You could even do like a pre ceremony cocktail hr and mi glue with guests who could make it earlier 🤷‍♀️
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  • Llcool_Kay
    Expert July 2021
    Llcool_Kay ·
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    I would suggest 6:30 instead of 6.
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    I'd also recommend 6:30 instead of 6, it would give all your 9-5 workers time to get off work and get cleaned up and commute to the wedding.

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  • Vicky
    VIP January 2020
    Vicky ·
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    I would suggest doing a first look and getting your pictures done before the ceremony so you don't need to do a cocktail hour, or you can just do a half hour while you wrap up a few more pictures. I would also start at 6 or 6:30 at the earliest.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    6:00 is fine. 6:30 is better. That allows people to get home from work and get ready.

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  • R
    Beginner September 2021
    Risa ·
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    Our Friday wedding ceremony starts at 6 and goes until midnight. I know this is going to sound rude, but we are spending a TON of money on our wedding. If someone needs to leave work early to make it, then they either will or they won’t. I’ve personally taken plenty of time off for others weddings. And I’m a healthcare worker, time off to me is precious!
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