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Jacky
Master June 2017

Friday wedding schedule

Jacky, on May 9, 2016 at 9:39 PM

Posted in Planning 32

So, I'm about to book the venue of my dreams since I was real little, for May 2017. It's a beautiful mansion that's considered a national historic landmark. The only issue I have with it is, is that Saturdays are all booked from April to October:-/ so I'm doing a Friday. So, I'm trying to figure out...

So, I'm about to book the venue of my dreams since I was real little, for May 2017. It's a beautiful mansion that's considered a national historic landmark. The only issue I have with it is, is that Saturdays are all booked from April to October:-/ so I'm doing a Friday. So, I'm trying to figure out the evening schedule. We were talking about skipping cocktail hour and go right to dinner, but I would rather have it. The problem is, Friday weddings usually start later in the evening, so I'm afraid if we started at, say 6 or 6:30, we won't have dinner until like 8:00, and I'm not a fan of late dinners. Is or was anyone else a Friday bride? Does anyone have ideas on what time to start the ceremony and how the schedule should go for the evening?

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  • AMW
    Master September 2016
    AMW ·
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    Sunday bride. Ceremony at 5, cocktails at 5:30, dinner at 6:30, cake at 7, I kick everyone out at 8 and FH and I spend the evening alone. Perfection.

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    I'm a friday bride as well! We are starting our ceremony at 5:30, cocktails at 6, reception beginning at 7. We gave people plenty of advanced notice and we are having a small(er) wedding of ~100 people.

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  • MrsLaurenET
    Master September 2016
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    This is our schedule:

    6:00 ceremony

    6:30 - 7:30 cocktail hour

    7:30 intros, dances

    8:00 dinner

    I really don't think 8:00 is too late for a weekend dinner. Especially since people will already be eating at the cocktail hour.

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  • melanie
    Master August 2017
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    We are doing a Friday and it's at 630pm, apps/cocktail hour immediately after while we do pics then dinner following after bridal party intros. I eat dinner super early so it was tough to choose this schedule but we loved the venue enough so it was worth it

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  • LRWEDDING
    Dedicated September 2016
    LRWEDDING ·
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    My schedule is similar to others on here.

    6:00 Ceremony

    6:30 - 7:30 cocktail hour

    7:45 dinner

    I don't think 8pm is too late for dinner. People will be also have appetizers at cocktail hour.

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  • ChocolatierKT
    VIP September 2016
    ChocolatierKT ·
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    We are having a Friday wedding and starting our ceremony at 5. Expecting it to be about a half hour. Cocktail hour at 545-645. Hoping to have dinner at about 715-730.

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  • MrsBest2B
    Master June 2016
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    I don't think 8:00 is too late for dinner. I've heard of people who had wedding dinners at 10:00pm. That's late.

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  • futuremrsgreenfield
    Devoted May 2016
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    Friday bride here!

    Our ceremony is at 5pm, which will only be about 15 minutes long.

    Dinner- 6pm

    Toasts- 7pm

    Cake Cutting: 7:30pm

    First Dances: 8pm

    Garter/Bouquet: 8:30-9pm

    And then it's party time! Times are approximate, but we're skipping a cocktail hour and doing all photos before the ceremony to save time.

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  • Audrey
    VIP June 2016
    Audrey ·
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    Another Friday night bride.

    Ceremony 6:00-7:00

    Reception will be in another location and will start as soon as people arrive. Food will be waiting.

    After final ceremony pictures for wedding party, I'm assuming we'll arrive at the reception at 7:30.

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  • Missys984
    Master October 2015
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    We had a Friday wedding with the ceremony starting at 5pm. Cocktail hour 5:30-6:30. Dinner started at 7. I don't think anyone was late and people didn't have an issue. I love Friday weddings, actually more than Saturday weddings. I still have my weekend to myself and I don't mind taking a day off or leaving work early for a wedding. I know not everyone has that option but its fun.

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  • KT
    Beginner October 2017
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    I'm planning a Friday ceremony (in October in MI) too and my fiance and I are still trying to figure out what time we want to start the ceremony! We don't want people to have to miss too much of the work day, but we want to enjoy the sunshine before it gets cold...

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  • Jen D.
    VIP May 2017
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    My cousin got married on a Friday and she did the schedule just like a Saturday- I think the ceremony was at 4-ish. Everyone just took off. Our whole family was OOT anyway and their friends and her husbands family just took the day off. It worked for them, but won't for everyone.

    Are most of your guests local? If they're OOT they're going to have to take off anyway. If they're local I like the idea of an early cocktail hour then the ceremony then dinner if you're worried about it, but honestly 8pm for a weekend dinner really isn't that crazy. Maybe include a more substantial app or two in your cocktail hour.

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