Formal Address on Casual Invitation

I don't think anyone will notice... they'll know it's a wedding invite by the envelope and after that they'll throw it away and just keep what's inside. Definitely don't spend the time or money to redo it in my opinion!

Yeah, don't worry about it. I doubt anyone will notice.

It's all fine. Most people don't save the envelopes, just the invitations. As long as it's delivered to the right location and addresses to the correct guest, it really doesn't matter.

I don't think it matters. Don't stress this is minor.

I would just leave it. the envelope gets thrown out anyway

Leave it, I would not even think about that if I received the invitation. I just tear right through the envelope to see what's inside

Just mail them! Good job - its totally fine to use formal addresses on casual invitations. If anyone has the nerve to comment about it, they are being an ass anyway.

No one will notice. Send them out how they are.

I would say not to redo them unless you realized that Mrs. Doe of the above example kept her name, has a professional title, or has asked to not be addressed in that outdated manner previously. Addressing women as solely an add on to their husband with no identity of their own is a pet peeve of mine. I will be having formal invitations but will specifically be bucking those guidelines. However, I know that my grandmother preferred to be addressed that way and always honored her wishes. So long as no one would be offended there is no need to spend more time and money.

Don't torture yourself. They're absolutely fine.

Don't torture yourself. They're absolutely fine.

I agree with @kirackle, the only way I'd say change it is if you know that you made that kind of error. For example, my Mom would flip her shit if she was addressed as "Mr. And Mrs. John Doe". She has a PhD and her last name is hyphenated. I don't even have my PhD (yet, it's a future aspiration lol) or a hyphenated name and I'd still be offended by that form of addressing. So I'd say leave them, unless you know already that there are partners who don't want to be addressed that way.

Thanks everyone! I feel much better now