For people that aren't registered anywhere...

I think that's what you tell them! That your families helped you out with lots of stuff for the house and you got many housewarming gifts.

I usually give a gift for a bridal shower and money for a wedding. I didn't realize people gave physical gifts at weddings. But like I said..I will just be happy to receive whatever.

If you are doing a honeymoon, you can set up a fund that people can donate into to pay for your trip as a wedding gift.

***EDIT: Since that is so unpopular, you could also just not register. People will probably still buy you things, but more will be inclined to cash.

Nono caitlyn. Honeymoon funds are beyond rude and they take a cut off of what people pay. Plus people think they are paying for a specific gift like say a massage and the reality is the couple just gets a check in the mail minus the fee. A guest could just give u cash and it would be 100 percent.

Like a honeyfund? No, thanks. I'm really not into asking for money.

Perhaps consider making a small registry with just a few items as some people (often older, more old fashioned folks) will insist on giving you a physical gift. You don't have to register for home goods, you have so many options. I know people that have registered for camping gear, board games, etc. Amazon has a registry that allows you to register for anything from any website. Also, having a small registry usually gives people the hint that you want cash.

I would do a registry for seasonal linens, décor and Ziploc® storage bags. This way you have extras that you can use and storage to keep them in.

Or just don't register. We're not registering. It's not necessary. And just let people know you're not registered. You're doing it the right way now and your response sounds very gracious.

Thanks for all the responses!

Someone suggested to me to make a small registry and tell parents and bridal party to spread the word that yes you made a registry, but you would like to fund a honeymoon. Your family and bridal party should know who it's appropriate to say that to. Miss Smith that played the piano at your parents church and hasn't seen you since you were 16 might take offense to giving money whereas your less conservative cousins and friends will sympathize with how expensive a honeymoon and wedding are.

Get on myregistry.com and register. There are always things you need. If you have the storage, register for stuff that will wear out, like towels and linens. Register for a limited number of gifts and that will force people to think outside the box. I didn't register for my first wedding for the very same reason and I received ridiculous gifts that I had no use for. This time I registered and I still received mostly money, but also gifts I actually wanted.