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Food or Dances First?

Cinda, on July 25, 2019 at 2:10 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 13

Is it better to do the food first and then the dances or the dances right off the bat then the food? Or the first dance and then food and then the rest? Like is it okay to split it up that way? We will be having apps served at our cocktail hour so the guests won't be starving

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Latest activity by Melissa, on July 25, 2019 at 4:43 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    There's no one way that works better than the others, it's really just your preference. We plan to go straight into our first dance after entrances, then dinner will be served, then parent dances. You can do it however you want!

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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    We did dinner then dances, I think it’s just a matter of preference. But I wouldn’t start the meal and then interrupt it with dances and finish it. Either do it all before or all after.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I did dances and then dinner. We did dances first because we made our grand entrance and went into it so everyone's attention already on us
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  • Nicole
    Devoted November 2019
    Nicole ·
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    We are doing dinner then dances, because I feel like our dances should be what "opens the dance floor" for the evening.

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  • CourtneyBrittain
    Master August 2019
    CourtneyBrittain ·
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    We are doing

    Grand Entrance into First Dance

    Dinner/Toasts

    Shoe Game

    Father/Daughter, Mother/Son dances

    Floor Opens

    Cake Cutting

    Dollar Dance

    Bouquet Toss/Garter Toss

    Dance Continues

    Send Off


    It really just depends on your own opinions though, and what works best for y'all.

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  • L
    Lady ·
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    We did our first dances right as dinner was winding down as a way to open up the dance floor.

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  • JJAF
    Super October 2019
    JJAF ·
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    We have a cocktail hour too. We will do welcome speech and a blessing, and then salad service will begin during the best man and maid of honor speeches, followed by dinner service
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  • JJAF
    Super October 2019
    JJAF ·
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    Whoops I totally sent that without finishing it:

    We have a cocktail hour too. We will do introductions, dances, welcome speech and a blessing, and then salad service will begin during the best man and maid of honor speeches, followed by dinner service
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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    IMO, it's best to do first dance, dinner, then parent dances. That way your guests don't have to sit through 3 dances back to back, and get to eat sooner.

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  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
    Nemo ·
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    We did:

    Cocktail hour

    Grand entrance

    Speeches (FOB, MOH, MOH, BM)

    Dinner

    Cake Cutting

    Mother/son dance

    Father/daughter dance

    First dance

    Opened up the dance floor to everyone

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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    We're doing our first dance right after introductions since it will only be 2 minutes long. Then as dinner service is winding down we'll have father/daughter dance, speeches, and then cake cutting. Then back to dancing!

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  • T
    Dedicated September 2019
    Teresa ·
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    We're doing the first dance first mostly because I needed to try and get everything in before we lose the photographer due to time constraints.

    Traditionally the dances signify the open dance floor. If I could I would do it this way but it's just not possible.

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  • Melissa
    VIP September 2019
    Melissa ·
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    We are doing everything all together at the beginning to get it over with. Entrance, dances, toasts, dinner. I don’t worry about guests having to wait 30 minutes for dinner because they are just coming from cocktail hour where there will be a ton of food.
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