This is just a story more than anything else but my FMIL makes me so nervous planning this wedding. Don't get me wrong I love her to death and she has good intentions but dang lady... 
So a family friend of theirs is getting married on the 29th of this month, FMIL has offered up this ladies (the one who is getting married) decorations to me, she says "Amy has a ton of stuff at their wedding that fits what your theme is, you guys can have anything you need from her decorations next year at your wedding" Like ok thats all fine and cool and stuff but did you even ask Amy if I could just "have" her decorations?? Then FMIL texts us the other day and says "oh by the way you guys can come to Amy's wedding if you want to on the 29th" Again ok all fine and good but DID YOU ASK AMY IF THAT WAS OK?? LOL idk it just blows my mind that shes offering all this stuff from Amy's wedding when I have no idea if Amy is even ok with it. As a bride planning my own wedding this makes me very nervous, like is she just going to randomly invite people to our wedding?? Is she just going to let people take all of our decorations??
Obviously I will find away to get a hold of Amy myself to see if this is all ok because like free decorations?? Sign me up!!
