Does anyone have any issues with over-opinionated FMIL? I know my FMIL has great intentions and I truly love and appreciate her, but it seems like she goes out of her way to try to control the details of everything. She insists on helping out with planning, but always has a conflicting opinion on things I want -- and doesn't let up. Instead of her saying "I really like this idea, have you thought of doing it this way?", she says "That makes no sense and my way is the more practical" She is super sensitive and takes a lot personally - so it almost feels like I'm being bullied into giving up my wants for things to appease her.
The details I'm talking about are truly small details -- wedding shower caterers, flavor of wedding cake, wedding colors etc., but I feel like I'm having to pick my battles and give in to those small details that I want in order to keep the peace.
Anyone else dealing with this? What's the best way to politely set a boundary?