Hi everyone!
My fmil is trying to control our wedding. We only have about 2 months until the date and we have been planning for 7 months. As a bride, I let her be super involved with my planning from making spreadsheets to picking out around the venue decorations to picking out her outfit. I let her know things every step of the way. Everything was fine up until about a week ago. She is now telling us that we need to change our plate settings and she wants to change the centerpieces that have been created back in December. She is trying to change our menu with our caterer and is trying to change our wedding day schedule. She also wants photos with all 70 people on her side of the family because they are barely ever in the same place. She wants us to take a two our photo shoot of just her family when I originally planned on taking them with our immediate family and our couples photos for an hour. Who wants to sit at the reception site for 2 hours waiting on us??? I am starting to break down because I want to please her but I want what I want as well. She is also trying to change our timeline and is wanting us out of our reception at 930 so she can start cleaning but we have told her before that we will be leaving at ****. I am starting to feel stressed because I thought all of the decision making was done.
My grandparents have told me maybe she doesn't feel included but I am starting to get worried that this will affect our future lives together. Do I tell her my concerns or do I go to my fiance?
