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Jasmine
Master August 2021

Flustered Vent!

Jasmine, on December 7, 2019 at 4:59 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 11
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My FH is still at his job that has major issues paying him on time. He's still waiting on his check from the 1st! He's applied to a few jobs and just quit. Like he's being real picky when we literally can't afford to. My check this time around was pretty short and already gone due to bills I had to pay.


I was counting on the extra I was supposed to get to continue making whatever wedding payments we could AND to buy my engagement outfit for next week. Now I'm not even sure what to do, if anything. I'm just frustrated because it always seems like things happen at THE WORST time. When we didn't have a wedding to pay for, everything was fine. I'm just over it right now.


How do you all handle??

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on December 9, 2019 at 8:09 PM
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    Ahh I’m sorry that seems so frustrating!! Sending positive vibes your way !!!!


    At first for us every meeting or appointment we had our daughter was sick or we couldn’t get a sitter or he got called for work so I get it with timing lol always seems like That “really?! Now!? “ Feeling lol
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  • Jasmine
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    Thank you!


    YES! That's exactly how I feel. Somehow we always make it through but honestly at the time it happens, it never seems to feel that way.

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Some times couples go through things at the worst time. I am so sorry and hoping things get better soon. Maybe talk to him about this and let him know how you need him to keep any job he can get just to keep paying bills on time.

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  • Jasmine
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    Thanks. I appreciate it. We actually just talked about it again this morning but I feel like he still doesn't really understand it. He knows how bad it is but kind of hasn't really been doing much to continue getting out the situation. So I guess only time will tell.

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  • Kristen
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    Some men have to come to realizations on his own but regardless of the wedding he should know he cannot be like that while you're married.

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  • Jasmine
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    My sentiments exactly!

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  • Stephanie
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    OMG I know the feeling. Seems like everything that could go wrong goes wrong at the wrong times. Just know that this will pass. FH does need to keep any job, wedding or not, he has to be able to help out and provide. I pray things will ease up for you two very soon. Just breathe and pray and make sure you two are communicating.

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  • Jasmine
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    Thank you. He still has his job it's just for the longest we talked about him finding one that pays on time and he probably applied to 2 or 3 and then quit applying.


    If checks are rarely ever late then it's more manageable but his checks are consistently late by like a week to 2 weeks! We're communicating but I think he's still trying to hold out and see if things get better 😒
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  • Stephanie
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    Oh ok good. I am glad you are still communicating. The job thing can be very frustrating. I pray that gets better VERY SOON. Smiley heart

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  • Jasmine
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    I greatly appreciate it. Thank you!
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  • Stephanie
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    You're so welcome.
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