Flowers for the groomsmen?

If one gets a bout, they should all get them.

We aren't doing boutonnieres, but I agree that if you're giving some of them one, all should get one. Obviously, it's up to you, but to me it would look odd if two had them and the rest didn't. Maybe if it was just the best man?

Ours are not wearing one.

I gave mine all boutonnieres. I like the look of it but yea it isn't necessary

Typically all of them wear them, but if you wanted to skip it I guess it's fine!

I am getting them lapel pin..I am not a fan of boutonnieres so I got the pins and it looks amazing.

We had no boutonnieres, not even for husband. My husband wore a talit for our ceremony so it wouldn't even have shown during the ceremony anyway, and he said he couldn't have cared less about having one haha. They weren't missed! But if you ARE going to get them for some groomsmen, you should get them for all.

We only did boutonnieres for the dads and grandpas. The groom and groomsmen suits had pocket squares so we decided to save the money and not do boutonnieres for them