First let me just say this is not a hating on kiddos post. I personally love children when they are not mine HAHA. That's a joke!
OK so here is my issue, I have been thinking about the wedding party and I have decided on not having a FG or a RB. I know that many people do this, but I truly think this my wedding party should include only those that I am really close to. I have a few nieces and only one nephew. None of my friends have children that I am close to, so I haven't given it much thought and was honestly planning on not having a FG/RB.
However, I was wedding decor shopping with the FH on Friday and when my son (16) mention a FG/RB I said "Nope, not having one." FH stopped in his tracks and said "WHAT? Why not?" I tried to explain it to him but I don't think he understood my reasoning. My question is this, should I have one or not?
So others don't get me wrong I am not only thinking about myself here. My friends are our friends and WE don't have any kids we are close to.
