Okay, this is gonna be weird but here goes:
1) I asked my soon to be niece-in-law if her 2 adorable daughters could be my flower girls. I asked right after we got engaged, and she said “Yes!!”. Fast forward 1yr and a few months and she is now backing out. Saying “It’s too expensive.” Normally I’d agree- HOWEVER, FH & I are/were willing to pay for plane tickets for the family of 5( asked older brother to be in wedding as an usher), hotel room, And the girls outfits! So literally all they had to do was get To the airport, as we had a shuttle to pick them up & take them back to airport after wedding, and pay for their meals- minus rehearsal and reception food!
2) I found a friend/fellow model who’s cute daughter was perfect and she agreed. Yes, she knew she was a stand-in. I found out today that she is now pregnant and due Right before the wedding and will not be able to come. Same offer was made to her and her daughter as was made to niece. While I am happy for her, I am soooooo bummed and panicky about the loss of a second flower girl!!
And, YES, I Know I can NOT have one- but, that is not what I want and am tryin to rack my brain, as well as stop a panic attack, and be OK with No flower girl.