Flower girl limitations at church

Those are really cute!

I actually think it is uncommon for the flower girl to actually throw petals (a lot of places don't allow that). I would just get her a nice bouquet and have her walk down the aisle.

They have really cute signs on Etsy that say like here comes the bride, or other cute things they can carry

Most places don't allow petals or other items to be thrown anymore. I would have her hold some sort of flower arrangement. Maybe in a basket, or on a hoop, or the wand is a cute idea.

Our venue doesn't allow anything to be thrown unless we pick it up 100%. I didn't want the stress of that, so we aren't. I'm thinking our flower girl will either carry a cute sign that says "here she comes!" or something, or a bouquet of flowers and she can hand out the flowers to guests!

One venue we wanted didn't allow flower petals (real or fake) to be tossed and when I was considering that venue I thought of an alternate option such as her passing out single roses as she walked down the isle

Daughter's FGs (ages 9 and 4) will have miniature versions of the bridesmaids' bouquets. They'll walk down the aisle with their RB brothers, then all four kids will sit in the second row with their dad (mom is a BM). The venue actually allows petals, but we've seen that not go well, so D chose bouquets.