FH and I are both Catholic, and are having a Catholic ceremony. When we met with our deacon, he dropped a bit of a bomb on us and said the flower girl can't throw flower petals in the church. What can we have her do?
(Mini rant: we're also not allowed to throw rice, bird seed, confetti, flower petals, or blow bubbles outside the church… my mom asked if we're allowed to breathe… UGH!)