I was supposed to get married at the beginning of this year, so two years ago when I started this...the girls I chose for my "flower girls" were already on the older side, well now they are 12 and 13...will be 13 and 14 by then. I still want them to be "flower girls" but how can i make it more grown up for them? Same situation with ring bearer...my nephew will be 9...so again... how can i make these roles appear more for the older children?