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Hi, and welcome!

It's odd that you use the term "first" marriage. Could you tell us more about your relationship?

View Quoted Comment Yes i can we have known each other for 18 years and been dateing for a while and he treats me like a queen we have a daughter she one years old and he helps with her and he does any thing in the world for his family he makes me feel loved he always there when i need him i know i can cry on his shoulder.

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Well, that sounds wonderful, congrats!

DH and I haven't found marriage to be all that different from before - only that now we get to say, "husband" and "wife" and... also know that if things go bad, we're the "next of kin".

Honestly, if you have a good, strong relationship now, just keep doing what you're doing, and you'll be fine!

View Quoted Comment Thinks for the advice just was a little scared and nervous since its my first one.

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My concern is that you keep emphasizing "first" - as if you expect there to be more?

People only refer to their "first marriage" if they are getting married a second time.

View Quoted Comment No i know this is going to be my only marriage

View Quoted Comment Then just say "our wedding" or "our marriage".


Don't want your FH thinking he's just the trial run!
Besides, less characters to type!

View Quoted Comment That's true I cant wait to our wedding i cant wait for the marrid life

Goodness gracious, give the girl a break!
It is her first time getting married.

Coming from a bride who’s been married before and had a big wedding and am now planning a very intimate wedding, let me say you do you! And make sure your wedding and vows are special and fit you as well as your spouse to be! No matter how big or small. Choose what’s most important to put your time & efforts towards.
And just imagine and realize married life will most likely be like real life now.

I agree with the "first wedding" part its Your wedding and it makes it so special that he is your first true love. Girl you are lucky some of us went real hunting before finding the one. Lol

Good luck, enjoy wedding planning and I wish you a blissful,healthy,loving marriage.

View Quoted Comment Ok thanks im excited but a little nervous at the same time

View Quoted Comment Thank you very much

View Quoted Comment Thank you for the encouragement