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Chelsea
Expert September 2021

First Look

Chelsea, on October 13, 2019 at 3:02 PM

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Did anyone do a first look? Are you glad you did, or do you regret it? There’s a portion of our venue we’ll only be able to take pictures in if we do a first look before the ceremony. My dress has a detachable ballgown so I was going to not wear the ballgown for the first look, and then when I come...
Did anyone do a first look? Are you glad you did, or do you regret it? There’s a portion of our venue we’ll only be able to take pictures in if we do a first look before the ceremony. My dress has a detachable ballgown so I was going to not wear the ballgown for the first look, and then when I come down the aisle it will still be a surprise and kind of a first look for the groom. I originally didn’t want to do a first look but I absolutely want pictures in this part of the venue. What do you all think?

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  • Suzie
    Super October 2021
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    What a beautiful moment! Such a wonderful reaction ☺️

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  • Eri
    Super October 2020
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    We plan on doing a first look.

    This is a hot topic on a local wedding FB group that I'm part of, and several photographers have chimed in to say that they typically get the more emotional shots with a first look than without.

    Obviously, every couple is different and the choice is a deeply personal one. The classic aisle shot is always a winner!

    I don't see anything wrong with doing or not doing a first look, but I just really like the idea of having some private moments with my FH before the ceremony. Fortunately, we're not being forced into one by logistics or anything like that, but regardless, I'm super excited to do it.

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  • Desiree
    Super March 2020
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    I can't wait for first looks! That will be my favorite part of the whole day Smiley heart And I love your idea of the detachable skirt for 2 different looks. *Applause* That will be fantastic.

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  • Chelsea
    Expert September 2021
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    The area we want the pictures in is where our cocktail hour is going to be, so the pictures would have to be done before the ceremony and cocktail hour.
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  • Suzie
    Super October 2021
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    Oh, ok I see. Maybe your photographer can get a few at some point during the reception instead. I know others do this to get sunset photos, or evening photos. I think it’s common to take breaks during the reception to get those “wow” shots.
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  • Misty
    Super October 2019
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    I didnt want to either.

    We had a non traditional day so I wanted something traditional with the walk... but the convenience of getting photos knocked out before the ceremony and just being able to enjoy the whole experience without interuptions.... along with having just a moment to ourselves was amazing and well worth it. I'm glad we did it. I wouldn't have wanted the other way now looking back.ni loved all the little moments we were with each other all day and felt way more connected
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  • Tosha Fay
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    For my first wedding we didn't see each other and I wouldn't say I regret it, but I walked out to him wearing a t-rex head lol. Sometimes those surprises make the best memories.

    I married a T-RexFirst Look 1


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  • Shireen
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    If you don't mind me asking what is the FB wedding group?
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  • Chelsea
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    I hadn’t even thought of us having some time with just us!
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  • Chelsea
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    Omg I love this!
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  • Tosha Fay
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    Thank you. He is a goof ball. Smiley smile

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  • Lex
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    We did a first look and it was sooooooo worth it.
    Look at that face!!!
    It also meant we could get more pictures done sooner so we could eat earlier lol

    First Look 2
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  • Chelsea
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    That’s a beautiful picture! And being able to eat sooner is suuuuch a bonus lol 😂
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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
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    We’re definitely doing a first look for a few reasons: 1.) I like the intimacy of seeing one another and being able to fully embrace the moment together and the huge step we’re about to take in life 2.) we have time to truly view one other, our attire, etc. vs. only getting a quick glance while walking down the aisle with our nerves and other distractions 3.) we want to get as many pics completed ahead of time (with only a few afterward) so that we can join in on 30-40 mins of our cocktail hour
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  • Nicole
    Dedicated September 2019
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    We did the first look and it was fantastic for getting our couple pictures done without being rushed. Then we separated, I put on my veil and the moment I got out of the car to walk down the aisle, it all felt so different and amazing. The first look took nothing away from seeing him as I came down the aisle.

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  • LB
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    I loved our first look. Not only did we get some amazing shots but it was a way for H and I to have some alone time together before the craziness. 100% no regrets.
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  • Alisha
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    We are not doing the first look because my fiancé wants to be surprised when I walk down the aisle and I agree with him. I want him to be surprised when I walk down the aisle the first time
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    We did first look and I’m so glad we did. That moment alone together was still my favorite part of the whole day and the look on his face was priceless. It didn’t take away from the moment of walking down the aisle and we enjoyed cocktail hour with our friends and family. It’s definitely a personal choice but we are glad we did it.
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  • Danielle
    Savvy August 2021
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    I'm doing the first look with my brother. Our parents are gone and I think that will be a special moment between the two of us. I know it will my time to cry it out and hell remind me my parents are looking down. I want to surprise my fiance since we have done nothing traditional in our 11 years together, I cant wait to see him down the isle with our children and become him wife.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    I'm glad I did it. There was so much going on that it was good for me to take pics already beforehand
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