First ever appointment and I'm slightly nervous

Leave the appointment for now. If it’s really bad, they most likely won’t have any issues canceling more last minute.


The best thing I did while dress shopping was to wear a strapless bra. They were able to clip the sample dresses that didn’t quite fit to it for a more realistic image of what it would look like. Every consultant I had thanked me for it!
I lost about 150 pounds a few years ago and still struggle with my body image (especially some remaining loose skin that I’ve resigned myself to keeping until potentially after kids). Just remember that there will definitely be something you’ll feel beautiful in and you DON’T have to try anything you’re not comfortable with! And if you put something on that’s an absolute “nope,” don’t leave the dressing room with it on. I had a few like that and I truly believe not showing them to my shopping companions helped tremendously with my self confidence.

The biggest thing to remember is that you're gorgeous just as you are, and your future spouse certainly believes you to be the most beautiful woman ever. I had the same fears being a plus sized bride myself, but just like with any clothing....it's the dress that doesn't fit, not you being too big. I went in thinking I wanted something more fitted, but the first one I tried on was the ballgown that I ended up purchasing.



You never know how things will fit until you try them on. Be open to all styles and shapes, especially when you're starting. Also bring water and make sure you eat a decent meal. Those dresses are heavy, and it can be a lot to try to remember all the different parts of a dress you like or didn't. There are a billion dresses out there- find one that makes you feel gorgeous and confident and like a bride. That's all it takes really! Relax and enjoy the shopping. Remember that you're gorgeous, and no dress can take you down!

Hey there! How is the weather in NY? I hope you are keeping yourself safe and warm!!

Have you decided to go ahead with your dress appointment?

View Quoted Comment So, as of right now we have approximately a foot of snow. The place I was going to go to thankfully texted me and said they are closed due to road conditions. So, we rescheduled.