I need advice! SO i have a bridesmaid who I am now noticing is being the DRAMA of my group. There is SOOOOOOOOOO much drama in my bridal party cause of her. I recently hung out with her, and she asked me that when we go on my Bachelorette trip if she can HOOK UP with my other bridesmaid. I addressed it with her and told her that I'm NOT okay with that happening. And she said that she won't be physical but she will be "verbally flirty" with her. Which I'm ALSO not okay with!!! I reached out to the other bridesmaid and she said she had NO IDEA that the other one was trying to get at her. She told me that she will NEVER and WON'T let that happen cause this is about me! I just feel like that was the line for me cause this is supposed to be about me, and I feel like she is making this all about her. I'm so mad. To add more to it, she also was putting words in my mouth and told everyone that "i over think everything due to my mental health'' What!!!! ALSO to add, I told her that whatever is going on in the group (drama wise) that I am not getting involved, this is for them to figure out, and she told them that I said "they were all brickering and fighting, and had no idea what I was talking about"
I honestly feel like this is just the Line for me. I don't know how to address it. I know that if this happens we will probably not be friends after this, but I just feel disrespected when she asked to hook up with my other bridesmaid.
