Kirstian
Dedicated October 2019

Finally a nice calming moment

Kirstian, on August 15, 2019 at 12:26 PM Posted in Planning 0 7
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For the first time since we really started planning am I calm. I have had to get a new MOH, 1 really nasty break down, and habing 3 family members tell me they werent comming becayse my FH is interracial. With my family tamed, a new moh, and a mini vacation I'm getting everything in place. We get married in 63 days and I feel like nothing can stop me. We almost have everything and it's nice

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Latest activity by Trista, on August 16, 2019 at 3:40 AM
  • Hannah
    Devoted September 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Congrats! I can't believe there are still people who think anything of interracial relationships! Completely blows my mind and I'm blessed to not have experienced it. I hope everything continues to go calmly, and again congratulations!

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    My fiancé and I are interracial and no one has said anything, they have just been supportive. But before that I dated and lived with a guy of a different race whose mother absolutely hated me. I tried so hard to be nice and have a good relationship with her and she would be nice to my face and then say hateful things behind my back which my at the time boyfriend would tell me. I’m sure she had a party when we broke up. It absolutely does still happen! Original poster, I’m so glad you are feeling calm and happy! It’ll be here before you know it.
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP ·
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    I'm so glad you hit the peaceful stage. We met with our photographer last night and I only have a couple more things to get before the big day! This is a good place to be!!! As for those family members, I am so sorry you have had to deal with that. It breaks my heart that people still can't see love between two people regardless of their race or ethnicity.

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  • Kirstian
    Dedicated October 2019
    Kirstian ·
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    Yeah unfortunately we live in the south and for some reason it's just looked down upon. We also both have family who doesn't like the fact I have tattoos but they aren't going to stop me. Its silly when people act like that now love is love no matter what or how they like it.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    That's really terrible how they're treating you and FH because you have an interracial relationship. I say good riddance those hateful people don't come. Love is love!

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  • Kirstian
    Dedicated October 2019
    Kirstian ·
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    It's alright it's one less person in my life being intolerant. my lovely mother always said to be out with the bad and in with the new. We have plenty of people to be thankful for and that love us
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  • Trista
    VIP September 2019
    Trista ·
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    Interracial relationships can be tough. I've gotten a few dirty looks, but I've also gotten a lot of support! Ignore the negative people and just enjoy your relationship!
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