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MrsThomas2U, on August 22, 2017 at 12:45 PM

The initial number I gave to my caterer was 125. I have received most of all my rsvp back and I'm at 160. What in the hell? I've had people rsvp back with 14 people and 6 people. When the invite clearly says 2 seat have been reserved and Adult reception. I'm so in panic mode because what if I pay the extra for all these people and they don't show. I was planning to call them and tell them that can't come but my mom thinks because they are family it's not right.

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Master April 2017
Bemyguest · on August 22, 2017 at 2:35 PM
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You HAVE to call. Your mom is wrong.
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Jennifer · on August 22, 2017 at 2:45 PM
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I invited my aunt and uncle and their 2 20-something kids. One can't make it, so we were asked if my cousin's gf can come in her place and we said sure. It didn't add anyone extra.

But THIS is ridiculous. And rude. How can anyone think its OK?
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Lynnie · on August 22, 2017 at 2:56 PM
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Whoa!! You need to call each of those guests individually and clarify who was invited. I'd divide up those guests between you and your fiance and get in touch with them ASAP! "Hi, just wanted to follow up on your RSVP! We're so excited to see you at the wedding, but wanted to clarify that the invitation was addressed to only Jane and Joe Smith, with 2 seats reserved for you. We will be unable to accommodate any additional guests. Thanks!"
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Bunnycita · on August 22, 2017 at 3:01 PM
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What!! Lol. 9 out of 14? And you clearly said 2! Crazy.
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Nonna T · on August 22, 2017 at 3:02 PM
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Is this a joke? Because we have family members who like to fill in numbers like "72" or "105."
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Kelsey · on August 22, 2017 at 3:05 PM
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WHAT THE FUCK 14 PEOPLE!?
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Devoted October 2017
David'sBride · on August 22, 2017 at 3:29 PM
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I don't mean to be insensitive but your post has me laughing so hard...the hell you say?
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Ariella · on August 22, 2017 at 3:40 PM
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Lol I wanna know why the other 5 couldn't make it.
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Tracey · on March 22, 2022 at 10:35 PM
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My situation wasn’t quite as extreme but I told the folks who said they were bringing extras on their RSVP cards that I had space constraints and couldn’t accommodate more guests. So incredibly rude. I think some people must live under rocks not to know this is inappropriate.
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