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Chris
Master February 2022

Fill in the blank: I wish I didn't have to invite _______.

Chris, on August 7, 2018 at 11:05 AM

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We want the details! Who do you wish you didn't have to invite to your wedding?? A weird uncle? Your future spouse's college room mate? Your mom's book club members? Next question: Fill in the blank: I wish I could have two ______. Previous question: Fill in the blank: I couldn't survive wedding...

We want the details! Who do you wish you didn't have to invite to your wedding?? A weird uncle? Your future spouse's college room mate? Your mom's book club members?


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144 Comments

  • Chris
    Master February 2022
    Chris ·
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    That's good to hear! Smiley heart Are you keeping it small, or do you just get along with everyone?! Smiley xd

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  • A
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Alicia ·
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    There is no "I wish I didn't have to invite" because it is my wedding and I do not have to invite anyone I do not want there. #SorryNotSorry

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  • Victoria
    Devoted October 2019
    Victoria ·
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    We’re keeping it kind of small, there’s just a lot of family that we don’t really talk to, they’re distant, so I’m just not inviting them
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  • Carrie
    Dedicated October 2018
    Carrie ·
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    For me it would be my mom.....for him it would be his dad......I do a sister I didn't invite
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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
    Mrscolón ·
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    All my FH's aunts, uncles and cousins that we barely speak to! It's the whole, if you invite some, you have to invite all, kind of deal.

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  • Chris
    Master February 2022
    Chris ·
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    Yes, those numbers can add up quickly, can't they?!Smiley heart

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  • Happily Ever Mrs. H
    VIP October 2018
    Happily Ever Mrs. H ·
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    This is going to sound odd, and it is for sure, but...

    I wish I didn't have to invite a Pastor friend of my FH's mom, because we know they were/are having an affair. But she insisted he and his family come - yes, he's married - yes, she's married - and they want to come - and it's potentially more gifts? Wow, that sounds terrible, but it's unfortunately too true.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Basically everyone my mom insisted on inviting.... Smiley xd

    She insisted on inviting everyone in her current small group (16 guests) who I've literally never met in my life, plus another 40 family friends I hadn't seen in over 10 years and was not close with!

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  • E
    Savvy December 2018
    Esperanza ·
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    I wish I didn't have to Invite My oldest sister's Fiance. He's always made rude coments about my family and since the day he met my FH, back when we were just dating.. He'd always insulte him and try to convince me to just break up with him. I love my sisters and I am happy that she's found love but I really wish I didn't have to invite my soon to be brother in law...
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  • D
    Beginner September 2020
    Desiree ·
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    My parents, because they refuse to speak with me.
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  • I
    Beginner September 2018
    Ixchel ·
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    I wish i didn't have to invite one of my future sis in law.. she so cheap.. with gifts when she has a good paying job.. like for my last baby shower she just got a set of onesies that all.. like really.. lets see if she goes and if so is she going to give a gift so she wont have to give us at least what 2 plate cost us when they are a family of 5. I think that will be fair..
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  • Valarie
    Savvy October 2019
    Valarie ·
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    A lot of family that I don't even speak to
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  • Lynsey
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Lynsey ·
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    My fiances “best” friend. He has always been a complete ass to me over the past six years and just last weekend made me cry. At least he agreed to not have him in the wedding so i will settle for that
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  • Lynsey
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Lynsey ·
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    Thats why i chose to not invite the ones i dont speak to. My cousins that i havent spoken to in 17 years...sorry but no thats more than half my life
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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Alaina ·
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    My father. Sad but true
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  • BB-H
    VIP September 2018
    BB-H ·
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    I wish I didn't have to invite extended family. But as family has helped pay, family has a say in the guest list. I have no problem with them. I just haven't seen them in years.

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  • RKeir
    Savvy October 2018
    RKeir ·
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    Since we're renewing our vows anyone we didn't want to invite-- we just didn't invite. Neither of us wanted our biological mothers there, I didn't want my sister or my aunt there either, so none of them were invited.

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  • J
    Savvy October 2018
    Jillian ·
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    Honestly, my future MIL. She's such a toxic person and I'm not entirely sure the whole wedding day will go by without some kind of drama with her.
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  • Suzanne
    Savvy April 2022
    Suzanne ·
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    Possibly some plus ones

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  • Angela
    Beginner October 2018
    Angela ·
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    My FH's old band mate (ex singer). I met him once and he was rude.
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