Good morning. Today is rough. My fiance finally flew here from the south (about 13 hours drive) so we could be together for the next few months. He had his job relocate him and it would give us a chance to quickly house hunt and prepare for our scaled down elopment; we plan to have a larger ceremony with family in October. He got here on Sunday and his mother passed away unexpectedly yesterday (Thursday) morning.
I have to be strong and here for him. He needs it! I can tell he's trying not to be too emotional b/c he never is but he's torn apart. His mother lived with him which makes it worse. I need advise. I'm not going to mention our elopment but I will say it's in 2 weeks and has been paid for (elopment package at a beautiful garden venue) with no refund available. What would you do in my shoes? To alleviate his stress, I bought him a plane ticket home for today to be with his family. This really hurts. COVID nearly broke my spirits bc we had to postpone our big wedding and now his mom has died. I'm trying to hang in there. I don't want to be selfish by mentioning our wedding to him. Your opinions are appreciated. Thank you in advance for being kind; I'm just upset.
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