Fiances family unsupportive- advice needed!

You’re not silly for being hurt but unfortunately that just how it is sometimes where people get caught up in their own lives. I’m sure they’re excited for you but aren’t showing it the way your hoping.

I definitely would feel some type of way but sadly we don’t get the same investment in our lives as we do with others. Just take a mental note and you now know how to move forward with them.

If this is a reoccurring thing then yes, I would feel hurt. However just reading about the one event you just shared, it sounds like you're taking it too much to heart. Many others are in a panic right now with the pandemic.

View Quoted Comment Hi Tiffany, yes unfortunately it’s repeated- for example when we got engaged one brother could only talk about how he was planning to propose to his girlfriend but couldn’t acknowledge us. I totally understand there’s a lot going on in the world and it’s very scary but I feel like you need to support your family too

View Quoted Comment Thankyou. I feel like I’m someone who cares too much about others so I’ll try and focus on those that care about me

I'm sorry Sophie, that sucks. Maybe they just had a lot on, maybe they didn't want to ask you about it and rub it in, or maybe they just thought that reply was sufficient. Whatever the case it's understandable you were bummed out by it, but know that we have your back and so many others on here are going through the same thing you are, we'll be here to support you all along the way. Thank you for the work you do, stay healthy, and stay positive

An announcement of a cancellation or delay does not call for an answer. That is long term general etiquette. Some people closest will respond with sympathy. Many will think, they must be so upset, the last thing they want is for everyone to make it a topic of discussion. I think you are reading too much into an absence of response. ......Also, most couples have one person respond for the two of them. Some couples, the person with the original family or friends connection responds. Others, they each do their individual family and friends, but both discuss and decide on one person who will respond to mutual friends.
Your sisters-in-law each responded, appropriate as the family connection and because they are BM. They acknowledged your announcement. That is it. For a death, permanent complete loss, one member of a household responds, and a real expression of sympathy is required. Not for delay of a wedding. Please don't make family relations a problem every time people do not do way more than the accepted thing. People are dying, people are afraid of running out of money, of their businesses collapsing permanently, of jobs that won't exist when this is over. Your wedding will just be delayed. You can marry now, still. You are delaying so you can have the big party most of us want.So, relax. It is hard on so many people on this forum, and I feel badly for each of you. But realize that this does not call for a response from everyone, and let go of feeling hurt.