So I went to the courthouse 27 days after the official proposal. In a year, we are having a normal wedding and rehearsal. At the courthouse, I invited 3 close friends and their boyfriends. I heard of many people doing this ahead of time and keeping it a secret. I wasn't very good at keeping it a secret. Well, the thing is we did it early so that he could leave the country for the honeymoon since he isn't a US citizen.
My regret is that I did not have the year of experiencing the joy of being a fiancee. I feel like a wife, so even if I keep it a secret, it's the same.
What do you think? There is a big difference between both titles, right? Like a rite of passage. I always thought being a fiancee was special