It's not for superstitious reasons, but I really wanted to have the big reveal, surprise moment. I went dress shopping with my mum and maid of honour and facetimes my mother-in-law to be, so they are the only people who have seen my dress.
I already have the dress at home (It's not expensive, it was a high-street wedding dress - just more my style - and its well past the date of being able to return)
I have been debating having the top half altered to give me more support so one day while no one was in the house I tried it on. While I had the dress on a delivery guy came to drop off a parcel and I saw from the bedroom window from the branding on the bag it was a important one my other half had been waiting for so I had to go and answer the door in my dress! He handed me the parcel and walked off so quickly so I thought nothing of it. But about an hour later my fiancé texted me and said "why are you at home in your wedding dress?" WTH!!!!
Currently in the UK if a parcel needs signing for, because of covid, the delivery guys are now taking a picture of the parcel on your door step for proof rather than a signature. Normally they tell you this and pop the parcel on the floor and let you step out of the way so no one is in the picture. This guy took a picture as he handed me the parcel (without telling me!) and there's me stood there in my wedding dress. So my fiancé was sent a notification to say your parcel has been delivered! here's the picture proof. He can see from the waist down. He can't see the whole dress but he can see that its plain, A-line and floaty and a midi length. (which tbh is all there is too the dress!)
I'm absolutely heartbroken. and it's not like it was a quick accident and swipe away, he fully saw this. I'm totally gutted. He says it's fine and he doesn't care it wont take away from the day, but it does to me. I care. It matters to me. I don't know if I should be getting another dress or not. He will remember this and even wants to put the story in his speech, and I just want to cry. It just feels like any other ordinary dress now, like there's nothing special to it anymore. Does anyone else understand? I don't know what to do.
